Obituary of Mary E. Rainey

Mary E. Rainey, a beloved mother, grandmother, and dedicated community servant, transitioned from this earthly life to her eternal life on Friday, January 3, 2025, at her home, surrounded by her loving family. 

Born on September 25, 1944, in Petersburg, Tennessee, Mary was the daughter of John B. Smythe and Irene (Wilson) Smythe. At an early age, she relocated to New York, where she would build a life marked by service, love, and dedication to her family and community. 

Mary married her husband, Russell Rainey, on March 12, 1962. From this union came four beloved children: Troy, Dorene, Charlene, and Ruby, who brought forth her seven grandchildren, giving rise to her legacy in the 15 great-grandchildren whom she treasured. 

Mary's educational journey began with her graduation from Peekskill High School in June 1963, followed by an Associate Degree in Social Work from Pace University. She served as a teacher at Aunt Bessie's Open Door Daycare, Mary gained employment at West COP in Valhalla, NY, from 1967 to 1976. In 1976, she accepted the position of Director at the Westchester Community Action Program, Kiley Center, Peekskill, NY where she dedicated 40 years to community initiatives. Through the Youth Employment Program, Mary uplifted the youth of Peekskill. Her exceptional contributions to the community of Westchester County were recognized with numerous awards and certificates, including a garden dedicated in her name at the Kiley Center. 

Mary's compassion and commitment made her a beacon of hope for countless individuals. Guided by her belief in empowering others, she led many through their darkest moments toward self-sufficiency, providing essential support for food, shelter, and stability. 

Mary became a member of Mount Lebanon Baptist Church in Peekskill, NY, where she served on the Finance Committee and led the Pastor's Aide Ministry for many years up to the present time, as well as holding the position of Vice President of the Golden Saints Ministry. Her faith and devotion to God were the cornerstones of her life. 

Mary loved gardening, planting, and cherishing moments spent on vacations with her family. She enjoyed community gatherings and cookouts in her brother-in-law Hayes' backyard in Peekskill, NY, creating precious memories that her family would forever cherish. Her grandmother, Julia Reynolds, imparted a guiding principle in her life: 'Do all the good you can do,' a mantra that Mary lived by throughout her years. 

Mary was predeceased by her father, John Smythe; stepfather, Paul Bullock; brother, Jerry Smythe; and sister, Barbara Warren. She leaves behind a vibrant legacy and a loving family that includes her mother, Irene Bullock; children: Troy (Rosie) Rainey of Navarre, FL; Dorene Rainey; Charlene (James) Liverman of Peekskill, NY; and Ruby (Robin) Reed of Las Vegas, NV; brothers: Waymon Smythe, David Smythe, and Terry (Florence) Smythe of Phoenix, AZ; Paul Bullock, Jr. (Mia) of San Jacinto, CA; Windell (Cathy) Smythe of Peekskill, NY; sisters: Evelyn Pelham of Anthem, AZ; and Linda (Hayes) Winston; and her cherished grandchildren: Jmal Chestnut, Lisa Liverman, Andre Rainey, Keneil Rainey-Henry, Charlie Grimes, Raymona Rainey-Bledsoe, Emma Rainey- McElhaney, Joycelyn M. Rainey, Naomi M. Rainey and Letherious (LT) Rainey. 

Mary Rainey's spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew her-a woman of strength, compassion, and love. Her family invites all who were touched by her life to celebrate her memory and the profound impact she made on the world. 

Rest in peace, Mary. Your legacy of kindness and service will forever illuminate the lives of those you touched. 

Celebration of life will be held at Mt. Lebanon Baptist Church on Wednesday, January 8, 2025 at 11:00am

Private Cremation Ceremony to Follow.